June 2013
“People think dreams aren’t real just because they aren’t made of matter, of particles. Dreams are real. But they are made of viewpoints, of images, of memories and puns and lost hopes.”
—Neil Gaiman (via kari-shma)
“Sometimes suffering is just suffering. It doesn’t make you stronger. It doesn’t build character. It only hurts.”
—Kate Jacobs (via hellanne)
I’m so angry and sad lately.
do you guys realize we can change our lives any time we want like you can just go ahead and delete ur blog, stop eating meat, shave your head, start running, tell that person you hate why you hate them so much, confess your love to someone and kiss them unexpectedly like why don’t we do that
“I hate who steals my solitude, without really offer me in exchange company.”
—Friedrich Nietzsche (via nu-mi-pasa)
“Envy is the religion of the mediocre. It comforts them, it soothes their worries, and finally it rots their souls, allowing them to justify their meanness and their greed until they believe these to be virtues.”
—Carlos Ruiz Zafón, The Angel’s Game (via thegirlandherbooks)
Do you think it is okay to sleep with a girl while she is completely wasted?
TL;DR is at the bottom.
No.
Absolutely not.
Now, keep in mind that not everything is completely black and white. Say, for example, my girlfriend and I already sexually active and are drinking and having a nice time and get ‘completely wasted,’ I don’t see any harm in that because there’s already an established history. We’ve been sleeping together before and thus I think it’s pretty safe to say that, whether we were drinking or not that evening, sex is acceptable.
Or, let’s say that I’m sexually active with someone but we aren’t in a relationship. We’re at a party with friends and head upstairs to go to sleep for the night and we decide to have sex. Once again I think that’s acceptable because there’s already an established history.
In a situation where I was speaking to a woman about having sex with her and it was made clear that she was all for it but we hadn’t yet had the opporunity to while sober, I wouldn’t sleep with her if she was ‘completely wasted.’ Talking about something =/= actually willing to go through with it.
TL;DR:
In my mind there has to be an established sober history of sexual encounters before I would be comfortable sleeping with someone who was intoxicated.
